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The Defenders-only Discussion Post!
The Defenders Prompt Post
Talk about the Defenders! Speculate, discuss, squee and debate. There's a thread for each episode so you can discuss what you've watched so far without being spoiled for future episodes - click on top level view to see only the first comment in each thread and stay spoiler-free.
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(frozen comment) Re: To people who watched Iron Fist: A Very Important Question about Danny Rand and education
(Anonymous) 2017-08-25 01:57 pm (UTC)(link)To the first one: yeah, not much of it is applicable. This is surface stuff; you need to look deeper than that. You're looking for the times when in Asia it would be normal to act in one way, and in USA people turn out to do something entirely different, and it was very surprising.
So for example, I think it was an Asian man who was very surprised when his Canadian colleagues asked him what made him choose his career, because what young person would try to make such a burdening, responsible decision by themselves? His father decided his career. He was further surprised when the Canadians were suddenly outraged and sympathetic to him.
Or another one: in Asia, you're supposed to take care of your guests - give them something good, not parade an army of choices in front of them. So it's a bit of a shock to an Asan when they visit a Western home, and the host is suddenly like,
"What would you like to drink? I have tea, coffee, oh, jasmine tea, orange and apple juice, there's some water if you'd like, oh, how about some alcohol? I have..."
"Uh, water please."
"Sure! You want it sparkling or not?"
Your guest is already screaming inside, frantically calculating how long it will take them to reach nearest exit and if you can catch them before they get there.
The struggles: this is pretty much normal for a migrant experience. I'm sure Asians have their own quirks within it, but yeah, none of that is surprising. The whole "outsider everywhere" thing certainly needs to be included in Danny Rand's characterization, but you're again looking for something more. In what ways does the Asian immigrants' culture not fit into US. society? For which aspects of that are Asian Americans actively fighting?
I don't have enough knowledge to give real examples here, I can only speculate. One of the things that don't fit at all are names - in some of the Asian cultures, at least, the name is made out three words, there's no real distinction between a first name and a surname, and your "first name" actually comes *last*, while the first two indicate what family you're from. But immigrants seem to let go of all that pretty easily.
What people are maybe working hard on keeping might be their religions and spiritual convictions, but I have nothing to actually support this claim. It's a shot in the dark, based on how things work in general.