Eh, there are a lot of people out there who love their kids but are still bad at being parents anyway; that's why things like CPS and foster care exist. Jack loved his son, and wanted to provide the world for Matt. He did his best. But he was still kind of a terrible dad.
Jack honestly reminds me a lot of my dad and I don't think I was irrevokably fucked up by his parenting, although I suppose I could just be in denial. I do think that a lot of the criticism of him seems to stem at least partially from class issues, though.
To clarify, a lot of the criticism of him seems to boil down to the one scene where Matt is stitching his face, which I agree wasn't A+ parenting, but I also don't think it's enough to say he was a terrible parent; a lot of the evidence seems to be extrapolating things that aren't actually in the show (or saying that leaving a 9 year old at home alone for a few hours is neglectful, which, what?)
Re: Unpopular fandom opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)Foggy does seems to drink his feelings.
My unpopular opinions are:
1) Vladimir has zero redeeming qualities.
2) Karen is not responsible for Ben's death.
Re: Unpopular fandom opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 07:56 pm (UTC)(link)Jack honestly reminds me a lot of my dad and I don't think I was irrevokably fucked up by his parenting, although I suppose I could just be in denial. I do think that a lot of the criticism of him seems to stem at least partially from class issues, though.
Re: Unpopular fandom opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)To clarify, a lot of the criticism of him seems to boil down to the one scene where Matt is stitching his face, which I agree wasn't A+ parenting, but I also don't think it's enough to say he was a terrible parent; a lot of the evidence seems to be extrapolating things that aren't actually in the show (or saying that leaving a 9 year old at home alone for a few hours is neglectful, which, what?)
Re: Unpopular fandom opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Unpopular fandom opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 12:01 am (UTC)(link)