If it helps any, I thought your Halloween post was fine. *shrug* :)
I think it is coincidental. It makes me worry too but in retrospect it's always just that I happened to post when things were slowing down already, or my comment was fine but didn't really contribute or have anything people could actively reply to. Plus people drop conversations for no reason all the time. Not because you're annoying or uninteresting, maybe they're just out of things to say. Or they have other stuff to do and need to leave the meme.
And it's the most useless advice ever but, for the real life situations, the less I care then the less it happens, so it must either be self-perceptual or something about my social anxiety/awkwardness level. For both, the only way I can fix that is to fix my social anxiety, so I try to focus on that.
Re: Do you ever feel like you somehow inherently stop conversation?
Re: Do you ever feel like you somehow inherently stop conversation?
(Anonymous) 2015-11-06 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)I think it is coincidental. It makes me worry too but in retrospect it's always just that I happened to post when things were slowing down already, or my comment was fine but didn't really contribute or have anything people could actively reply to. Plus people drop conversations for no reason all the time. Not because you're annoying or uninteresting, maybe they're just out of things to say. Or they have other stuff to do and need to leave the meme.
And it's the most useless advice ever but, for the real life situations, the less I care then the less it happens, so it must either be self-perceptual or something about my social anxiety/awkwardness level. For both, the only way I can fix that is to fix my social anxiety, so I try to focus on that.
Re: Do you ever feel like you somehow inherently stop conversation?
(Anonymous) 2015-11-06 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)