I agree completely. Matt's choices started when he was 9 and rescued an old man in the street and lost his eyesight in the process. With or without the suit, with or without his powers, he's not going to stop. His terrible life has already tried to beat the heroics out of him and failed. He can't stop. It's who he is and he's going to try to help where he can, when he can, until he can't, whatever the consequences. Not all of his choices are good choices, he makes mistakes and he's fallible, but he needs friends who can accept and support him, every part of him.