I'm 40 and still learning and really uncomfortable with the whole thing. LOL The things that turn me on sometimes terrify me. Yes. Weslesys torture scene was a defining moment I think. As was the movie Dangerous Liasons I'll go into a fic not expecting to be as affected by it as I am and then... think. Hmm. And it is not anything I've ever felt comfortable admitting to in real life.
Re: Kink discovery
(Anonymous) 2015-12-06 04:29 am (UTC)(link)The things that turn me on sometimes terrify me.
Yes.
Weslesys torture scene was a defining moment I think.
As was the movie Dangerous Liasons
I'll go into a fic not expecting to be as affected by it as I am and then... think. Hmm.
And it is not anything I've ever felt comfortable admitting to in real life.