Matt is a vigilante who sometimes works with Fisk and it crawls under Wesley's skin that this ridiculous man in a mask is getting Fisk's attention and praise. So, he shows Matt exactly how the pecking order works around here. And of course, Matt being the good little Catholic boy he is gets off on being dominated and hurt. Wesley who spends so much time being subservient to Fisk finds that he likes being the one with total control. So this happens again, and again, and again.