you can't tell me stick didn't throw all kinds of distractions at matt while forcing matt to ID/keep track of every person in a building or what was happening three blocks over or to name every note in a perfume or whatnot. getting felt up or worse was one of those distractions. and then sex itself was used as a method to control your enemies.

years later, "(severely unwanted) distraction/tactic" is how matt has internalized sex -- as an unconscious coping mechanism due to trauma, maybe -- until it all falls apart when he gets into a relationship with foggy. h/c, foggy helping matt realize just how fucked up what stick did to him was and then coping with that realization, introducing matt to the concept that sex can be pleasurable and that feeling and giving into desire isn't a failure. doesn't have to be explicit noncon, though stick shaming matt for failing his training and "liking" said distraction would be appreciated, as well as matt being initially horrified at the thought of associating foggy with something he dislikes so severely; consciously he knows people have fulfilling sex lives all the time but the thought of inflicting it on foggy nauseates him.