Has been re-watching Butterfly Effect recently, and wow, Elden Henson played Lenny there.

So now I want x-over, where somewhere along the line (you pick the exact point) Lenny's family moved the fuck away from all the crap that traumatized Lenny. And it helped. Somehow, he turned out ok and became Foggy.
But.
You can't leave your past behind, not really, not completely. And surely not if there were people like Evan.