Specifically, there's another kinkmeme that I shall not name here that's having a lot a lot of problems with the unspoken rules part of the kinkmeme. For example, there have been anons jumping down people's throats for "plugging" when they fill a prompt but that fill then spirals into a much larger story than originally asked for by the prompter.
That's a problem you'd never see here. Or that the mods would screen almost as soon as it happened. Yet it's a problem running rampant over there.
However, I don't feel comfortable being sole writer of this thing because I really am coming form the perspective of "Oh my god, look at this mess." and I don't want to spend 3/4 of my time writing and editing it second guessing myself and whether or not I'm actually acting in good faith or whether I'm just being an ass and contributing to the major problems of negativity this other place as got going on.
And also, I think establishing more guilde lines is better. Like if I read a fic where x happens and I want to prompt a fic where x also happens there is no guilde line for if I should link to of even mention the existence of fic x and I think this is something that should be talked about.
I mean this happened with one of my fics which turned out to be really cool. I mean I wasn't cited at all but in the comments I brought up my fic and it was cool to have OP say, "Oh yeah! That was great! And it's where I got the idea from."
But if I wrote a fic for this fandom in question and this happened on that kinkmeme... I would be livid because it's such a hostile place right now. It's also why I'm just not writing for this fandom period.
But yeah. This is all for the benefit of that first anon to explain that I have 0 problems with the daredevil kinkmeme. I think it's easily one of the best kinkmeme's I've been on in a long time.
But I know that with kinkmemes becoming more and more common there will be more and more of them that fall apart like this other one I'm not mentioning is.
And I don't know if I'm dragging up wank or something. This is just a huge problem and me and my little group of friends don't know how to handle it. So I guess I'm also looking for a reality check. That's the deal.
I'd love it if people like the anon above could help me with this. Because while I'm inspired by the utter mess going on in other fandom spaces I also think that everything they brought up is important to focus on because I think it's way more important than the perspective I'm taking. But I'm having a really hard time with this bais I've got.
Re: Hey! Project!
Yes.
Specifically, there's another kinkmeme that I shall not name here that's having a lot a lot of problems with the unspoken rules part of the kinkmeme. For example, there have been anons jumping down people's throats for "plugging" when they fill a prompt but that fill then spirals into a much larger story than originally asked for by the prompter.
That's a problem you'd never see here. Or that the mods would screen almost as soon as it happened. Yet it's a problem running rampant over there.
However, I don't feel comfortable being sole writer of this thing because I really am coming form the perspective of "Oh my god, look at this mess." and I don't want to spend 3/4 of my time writing and editing it second guessing myself and whether or not I'm actually acting in good faith or whether I'm just being an ass and contributing to the major problems of negativity this other place as got going on.
And also, I think establishing more guilde lines is better. Like if I read a fic where x happens and I want to prompt a fic where x also happens there is no guilde line for if I should link to of even mention the existence of fic x and I think this is something that should be talked about.
I mean this happened with one of my fics which turned out to be really cool. I mean I wasn't cited at all but in the comments I brought up my fic and it was cool to have OP say, "Oh yeah! That was great! And it's where I got the idea from."
But if I wrote a fic for this fandom in question and this happened on that kinkmeme... I would be livid because it's such a hostile place right now. It's also why I'm just not writing for this fandom period.
But yeah. This is all for the benefit of that first anon to explain that I have 0 problems with the daredevil kinkmeme. I think it's easily one of the best kinkmeme's I've been on in a long time.
But I know that with kinkmemes becoming more and more common there will be more and more of them that fall apart like this other one I'm not mentioning is.
And I don't know if I'm dragging up wank or something. This is just a huge problem and me and my little group of friends don't know how to handle it. So I guess I'm also looking for a reality check. That's the deal.
I'd love it if people like the anon above could help me with this. Because while I'm inspired by the utter mess going on in other fandom spaces I also think that everything they brought up is important to focus on because I think it's way more important than the perspective I'm taking. But I'm having a really hard time with this bais I've got.