To be honest, I see 'Devil by the Horns' as very out of character for both Punisher and Daredevil. It strongly conflicts with a good chunk of their relationship in the comics, particularly the run where Matt is in prison (Frank purposely gets himself arrested when he finds out Matt is struggling with prison life so he can help him) and the Omega Effect where Frank basically lets Matt boss him around the entire time.

They beat the crap out of each other and trash talk each other sometimes for sure, but beneath that there's genuine and mutual care. "Devil by the Horns" is definitely not the comic to judge Frank Castle or his relationship with DD by.